Mary,
Thank you for always giving these old men a kick in the balls with all your great posts!!!
It was well known at our Kingdumb Hall that a certain brother was abusing his wife. All the elders knew but never said anything to him.He wouldn't let his wife : call anyone on the phone,couldn't turn on the air-conditioner,use too much hot water,shop at any stores without his permission,drive the car until he got home from work,and would have to give details of where she was and what she did all day.
According to the WTS,if she ever left this jerk,she couldn't ever get remarried.It would be a disfellowshipping offense.But if some brother had sex for 2 minutes with someone other than his wife,the wife would be able to get remarried.That takes the cake!!!!